How To Deal with Backstabbers!

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Bagi lo yang suka bergaul pastinya lo bakalan nemuin macem-macem orang dengan sifat dan karakter berbeda-beda .let say , temen shoping , temen nongkrong , temen ngebaggs ?? temen kerja atau temen curhat-curhatan .They might say they're your 'best friends', but the moment your back is turned, they lie about you to others. No one wants to be hurt in this way, but how do deal with them?

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BACKSTABBER <-----

1. All backstabbers share a common denominator; they all want something from you. Whether it is money, homework, a house to trash, your computer, your style, practically anything, varies from person to person.
2. Watch out! Sama sekeliling lo, If you have a bad feeling about somebody, listen to your instincts!
3. RED FLAGS! Please,pay attention!
• Kalo mereka udah kebukti berkhianat sama lo, don't trust that person again without extensive consideration. Gilak,udah laknat banget lah tuh orang..
• If the other person doesn't have friends of his or her own, there may be a reason. Perhaps other people know something that you don't.
• If someone is mean to you one minute and nice to you the next, there is definitely something wrong.
• If someone is too aggressive or tries too hard to tell you on something, he or she is likely setting you up.
• Trust your real friends,remember!Real Friends!mereka pasti banget bakal ngebantuin lo.
• Notice the other person's work ethic. If he or she is lazy and irresponsible, stay away from the person as far as anything that requires hard work goes. If you work hard, he or she will use you in a heartbeat!
4. Notice how he treats things you care about. For instance if you really care that your room is clean, and after you've explained this to him he still comes over, throws his backpack on the ground, takes his shoes off in the middle of the room and so on; this means he doesn't really care about you.
5. Try to detect from an early stage what the backstabber is interested in sucking from you.
6. If the backstabber persists in pestering you, either ignore him or tell him dispassionately that you do not want to do (insert activity here). Be polite, but extremely firm. If they detect a weakness in your firmness, they will try as hard as they can to puncture it.

Nah! mungkin itu aja yang bisa gue kasih ke lo semua, semoga ada manfaatnya dan bagi si Backstabbers itu bisa berubah jadi lebih baik, dn bisa berpikiran lebih terbuka, kalo mereka masih gak berubah singkirkan aja deh terserah sama lo lo pada mau di apain gue sih ikhlas-ikhlas aja,karena mereka tuh SAMPAH gaaaaaaaaaaaan!!

muchLove, by: festy